Etiquette Books for an Age Without Rules. Three books seek to unravel the dos and don'ts of etiquette in postmodern times. By P. J. O'rourke. [New York Times: Books]
Martin tells ... a better story about the sacrifices of etiquette. Queen Victoria drank from her own finger bowl. ''She had to. Her guest of honor, the Shah of Persia, had done it first.'' There is an idea current that the purpose of etiquette (and of practically everything else) is to make us all feel good. The purpose of etiquette is to make us all be good (or act as if we were).
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