Trials of Dating - Date Two(r)

"r"...I really liked this one and god was he yummy. I have no idea what the hell happened to him after our date..like he got freak out or something.

Vital Statistics:
Age: 27
Hair: Blond and Long (mid-back)
Eyes: brown
Height: 6'1
Weight: 150

I have a tendency to like skinny guys (5'8 and over) and usually date musicians, writers or anyone artistic (programmers included).

So we talked via IM (yahoo - much better program) for at least a month and talked on the phone during that time also(learned from mistake number one)..we had everything in common. We liked the same type of music, he likes cats and said that anyone who has five cats just means they have alot of love to go around..total sweetheart. First time I talked to him on the phone, he played his acoustic guitar for me..who can't help fall for that..totally got me hooked. He had a kid but that was totally ok with me..after he explained the story of the kid..definetly a sweetheart. He has that weird honest confidence I like in guys...his current profile says "If I could think of something clever to put here..I would. But I can't sooo how about this..You just should!" which actually makes me smile. We were/are looking for the same things in life and from a relationship or so I thought.

So first time we try to get together - a flood happens in their studio (he's in a band) and he can't make it..I understood..it was flooding in my backyard that day also. Second time, I have an emergency at work..however we both kept trying to make a date. Finally, third time we set up to meet..we finally do - here's the interesting part:

We both showed up wearing black jeans, black boots, black sweaters and we both wear silver rings and have no use for time (no watches) and we are both smokers..it was interesting that we wore exactly the same type of clothing..We had a great conversation during dinner and a good time at the movies (although reflection now from another friend..any guy that takes you to the movies on a first date..only wants to get laid and doesn't want to talk to you). So we finally say goodnight and then we talk on the way home via cell and for another hour or so after we both get home..we met in Oakland..he lives towards SF and I in the other direction.

Here's what I don't get...I never heard from him again. He wouldn't return my emails - usually this in general pisses me off. Wouldn't return my phone calls. So I figured he was busy or something...I waited and waited and then moved on with my life..figuring he was a jerk.

Looking back, I'm thinking (1) he either got freaked out (2)he only wanted to get laid (which honestly I could have gone for if he had told me the truth) (3)he is just a jerk.

I'm not mad anymore...acutally don't care that much anymore..still think he is a babe. Would love to kiss him once. Would love to do more..but whatever..

Next chapter... Date Three "j"

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