SEX TIP #19
Dear Sex Tip Counselor,
I know this guy that loves to perform oral sex on girls' assholes. I can't imagine how that could possibly feel good. I am really trying to be open-minded about this. My boyfriend really wants to try it out on me. I can't see how he gets any pleasure out of doing this. Licking my asshole can't bring me to an orgasm, can it?-Kissing ass, Miami, Florida.
Dear Kissing ass,
As always, my first question back at people when they're wanting advice on trying something new is, have you tried it? Until you do, assuming it's not dangerous or an activity that puts you at risk for STD's (sexually transmitted diseases) or in any other danger, how can you really know? Anal sex of any sort is viewed by many as taboo because of the assumption that the anus, since it's the place where the human body excretes waste, is filthy and off-limits. Attitudes towards anal sex have traditionally been negative towards the practice. Yet, the nerve bundles in the anus are as plentiful and sensitive as in the male glans and penis, and the female clitoris. There's a lot down there to make one feel good. As to whether oral stimulation of your anus will yield orgasm, that's for you to find out. Some men can't cum from blowjobs, some women can't cum from cunnilingus. My advice is to let your boyfriend try, and see how you feel about it then. To make you both more comfortable, maybe you could do it right after you shower, so you feel more confident and less "unclean" about the whole thing. As well, you may want to let him stimulate you anally with his fingers a few times before allowing him to use his tongue on you, to start seeing if you enjoy that experience, before moving on to the others. Good luck.
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