Monday, September 08, 2003

Anal sex or Kamasutra? KAMASUTRA Nahhh! Just The Art Of Fucking. by Scoreland.com ------------------------------- Part I Anal sex. Ass-fucking. Taking it up the butt. Whatever you call it, a lot of us are doing it. Truth is, close to 50% of all heterosexual men and around 40% of all women have either had anal sex or are dying to try it. So, what’s the appeal? What is it about butt-fucking that has so many people both fantasizing about it and actually doing it? Simple.“It’s dirty!” says Will, a 45-year-old businessman who has a healthy, if naughty, lust for his wife’s ass. “It’s perverted enough to make us feel like we’re being ‘bad,’ which is a big turn-on.” It doesn’t hurt that ass-fucking is still considered just a little bit taboo. “It would shock the hell out of the people we know if they had any idea of what we do behind closed doors!” he says. “It’s like our own dirty, little secret, and that makes it even more exciting.” Will and his wife are certainly not alone. Most of those who engage in anal sex get a thrill out of the fact that it’s just plain nasty! And it certainly seems to bring out the animal-nature in us. For a man, the sight of a woman on all fours - her asscheeks spread wide and willing, her pucker winking - fires up an ancient urge to pillage and plunder (her asshole, that is). And for women, ass-fucking can be a delicious, almost-submissive-but-still-decidedly-slut-like way of opening herself up to her man. Add to that the fact that it feels damn good (on both the giving and the receiving end), and it’s no wonder so many of us crave a little backdoor boogie. Some people, however, women especially, are hesitant to try it. They’re often worried that butt-fucking is too dirty or that it will hurt. If you’re itching for some anal action and your gal is reluctant, don’t despair, just be creative about how you approach her. Getting Her In The Mood “My last boyfriend was always pushing me to try anal sex,” says Sammie, a 20something cocktail waitress with a nicely-bubbled butt. “But it always seemed icky to me, and I’d heard it hurt like hell, so I told him no way.” Her current boyfriend, however, tried a different approach. “He was going down on me one day, and I was just about to cum,” she remembers, grinning,“ and that’s when he started to play with my asshole. It felt so good I couldn’t have stopped him if I tried, and I came really hard.” Even though Sammie says that at first she thought it was “gross,” she began to enjoy his anal attentions so much that she soon wanted more. ³After awhile I totally wanted to take it in the butt!” Sammie’s boyfriend knew that subtlety is best when it comes to getting a girl in the mood. The trick is to help her get in touch with her own, inner anal-slut. A good time to do that is when you have your tongue firmly planted on her clit. Most women love a little ass play then; however, they just don’t know it yet. Caress her little brown pucker after you’ve already got her good and worked up. Keep lapping at her pussy while you probe the tight, little muscle; the two sensations will likely drive her wild. When she’s on the edge, insert just the tip of your finger into her anus and hold it there while she cums. After that, work more anal play into your licking, sucking and fucking sessions, and soon she’ll be wanting more. To Sheath Or Not To Sheath “My girlfriend’s totally ready to try anal sex,” says Josh, of his sultry Latin lover, Maria, “but we don’t know if I should wear a condom or if we can go without.” The young computer tech knows it would feel better for him to go au naturel but he’s concerned about safety. “I tried to ask my family doctor,” he says with a rueful smile, “but he was no help at all. He gave me a 15-minute lecture on the evils of doing it.” Old-fashioned notions of anal sex aside, experts do recommend the use of condoms or some kind of barrier (like latex gloves, dental dams and even non-microwave-able plastic wrap) when engaging in any kind of anal play, including fingering, rimming and fucking. That’s because the colon and the rectum are home to all kinds of bacteria and it’s easily spread by sexual contact. Of course, a lot of people feel that using a barrier decreases the pleasure for both partners. You’ll have to use your own judgment. A healthy, monogamous couple may feel safe without a barrier, while two people with a history of multiple partners might choose to use protection. Either way, remember that anything that’s been in the ass (whether it’s a tongue, a toy, a finger or a dick) shouldn’t go into the pussy unless it’s been very thoroughly washed. TO BE CONTINUED... Part II tomorrow. In the meantime, enjoy your tonight's practice :) --- Find entire article at Scoreland.com. Preview Scoreland big boobs Directory. 11:26:10 PM    comment []

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