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Thursday, September 14, 2006
 

Like many young ladies, I have a small but important collection of sex toys and dildos, which I use frequently at night (and OK, during lunch sometimes as well). But unlike many young women who like to keep these toys a secret, I think they can be added into the mix with a man to spice things up. But surprise, many men don't agree with me! Over the past six months I did some experimenting: could I get a man to let me use a vibrator during penetration during our first sexual encounter? My sample size was 20 "volunteers" (what can I say? I'm 25 with big tits and I go to bars).

Group A: 10 men I asked saying "Wanna play?" and showing the vibrator, with a big smile on my face.

Group B: 10 men I asked by saying "The only way I can cum is with this baby. Do you mind?" No smile, tone of voice was more of an order.

Both groups I asked as they were putting on the condom.

Group A: 80% rejected my request. Yes, only two went for it, and those two seemed to be very, but VERY turned on and excited. Afterwards one asked me where I got it, he wanted to buy one for future use!
Three men communicated non-verbally that they didn't want me to use a vibrator (head shaking).
Two men asked me what it was! LOL, they had never seen one! I explained it to them, told them it would be good for them, they touched it, but then declined.
One man promised me to stimulate my clit during sex manually (which he did. . . for the first 5 minutes only!)
Two men lost their erections. I then apologized, said I was drunk (not true) and blew them.

Group B:
40% accepted my proposal, but two of those guys seemed a bit pissed off. 40% rejected my proposal (one stopped to talk a few minutes about why). But here is the kicker: 20% left! Yes, got up and left! (and one called me a very nasty name)! So being firm gets a higher yes rate, but also pisses men off more.

So sex-toy lovers, we have a LOT of educating to do! Sometimes I think that the internet makes us think that there are more of us toy lovers than there are in reality!


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