Death of Idealism
I've known for a while now, not overly long, but certainly not just yesterday or last year, that idealism is for the young. And that's where it has the stongest chance of influencing our tomorrows.
Today, a colleague-friend committed a stupid act. He's a he and of course, the act was perpetuated against a woman.
Hard part is, I understand it. I understand the whys behind it; I understand the abhorence of it.; I see the grays.
A definite sign of age.
The story goes thusly:
An employer, an over-achiever, very smart, very multi-tasking guy is hosting a public event on a college campus that involves a guest speaker who's offered to autograph books. Near the end of the presentation, the book sellers, who happen to be his employees, move from the presentation room to the hall.
Not knowing why, and watching a line of prospective buyers queue where the booksellers were but now aren't, he jumps from the stage, finds the employee in charge, and in a hallway with only one witness (another employee), grabs her shoulders and gives her a shake.
Ohmigod.
I understand frustration. I understand parental desire to shake sense into someone. I understand.
I also understand thefeeling of being on the receiving end - and it is not pleasant, at all.
The main point is, I understand. My other colleagues, several decades younger than I, are outraged. As well they should be. Because if they remain outraged, maybe we all will - even as we approach advanced age. And maybe then, there will be no thought of ever using force to make a point... like no wars, no domestic violence, no bullies, ad infinitum.
Maybe.
In the meantime, some of us who have worked with idealism, who've envisioned better worlds, only to watch our dreams thwarted, can understand how idealism dies.
And we choose to go on, and make a difference in the minimal ways we can.
That's not enough. We need to encourage and nurture the idealism of the young.
But, it's hard when faced with realities.
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