THE SAN FRANCISCO CHRONICLE REPORTS THAT CATHOLIC CHARITIES WILL NO LONGER PROVIDE ADOPTION SERVICES.
THE OPENING PARAGRAPH READS:
QUOTE -AFTER SPENDING NEARL 100 YEASR FINDING HOMES FOR CHILDREN AWAITING ADOPTION, CATHOLIC CHARITIES ANNOUNCED THAT IT WILL NO LONGER PROVIDE FULL ADOPTION SERVICES. ... CLOSE QUOTE
IT CONTINUED ...
QUOTE -THE DECISION TO END ADOPTIONS COMES FINE MONTHS AFTER THE ARCHDIOCESE SAID IT NO LONGER WOULD ALLOW SAME-SEX COUPLES TO ADOPT CHILDREN THROUGH ITS CATHOLIC CHARITIES AGENCY.
EARLIER THIS YEAR, CATHOLIC CHARITIES SAID IT HAD PLACED FIVE OF 136 CHILDREN WITH SAME SEX COUPLES SINCE 2000.
A 2003 VATICAN EDICT SAID PLACING CHILDREN INTO SAME SEX HOUSEHOLDS WAS "GRAVELY IMMORAL" AND "WOULD ACTUALLY MEAN DOING VIOLENCE TO THESE CHILDREN" -
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OH MY GOD.
NOW, I AM A CATHOLIC. BAPTIZED, RECONCILED, FIRST HOLY COMMUNION, CONFIRMED, MARRIED ... ALL IN THE CHURCH. WELL, THEN I WAS DIVORCED AND MARRIED AGAIN. THAT WAS A CIVIL MARRIAGE. BUT STILL, YOU CAN SEE THAT I HAVE HAD MY OWN SORT OF DEVOTION TO THE CHURCH.
THAT WAS SHATTERED WITH THE REVELATIONS WHICH I HAD FIRST DENIED AND LATER HAD TO ACCEPT THAT THERE WAS A SYSTEMIC PROBLEM WITHIN IN THE CHURCH THAT ALLOWED CHILD MOLESTERS TO BECOME PRIESTS, TO PERPETRATE THEIR HEINOUS ACTS, AND THEN TO FIND ALL MANNER OF WAYS TO COVER UP FOR THEM. PEDOPHILE PRIESTS. IT[base ']S ENOUGH TO DRIVE ONE TO THE EPISCOPALIANS.
BUT IT DIDN[base ']T. WHLIE SOME OF MY FORMERLY DEVOUT FAMILY MEMBERS DID LEAVE THE CHURCH, I HAVE NOT. NOT FORMALLY, ANYWAY.
AND NOW TO HEAR THIS MAKES MY BLOOD RUN COLD.
WHAT WOULD JESUS DO INDEED?
RATHER THAN PLACING CHILDREN WHO ARE PARENTLESS, FAMILY-LESS, INTO A LOVING ENVIRONMENT WITH A COUPLE WHO WANTS TO PARENT THEM... SAME SEX OR OPPOSITE SEX ... THE CHURCH ABANDONS THE CHILDREN ALL TOGETHER.
HAD THEY EVEN MAINTAINED THAT THEY CAN[base ']T PLACE CHILDREN WITH SAME SEX COUPLES DUE TO THE CHURCH[base ']S MORAL TEACHINGS, I WOULD HAVE ACCEPTED THAT - GRUDGINGLY, AND NOT WITHOUT COMMENT! -- BUT I WOULD HAVE ACCEPTED THAT AS THEIR RELIGIOUS RIGHT TO BIGOTRY.
BUT TO ABANDON ALL CHILDREN.
AND TO STATE THAT PLACEMENT WITH SAME SEX COUPLES AMOUNTS TO VIOLENCE PERPETRATED AGAINST THE CHILD ...
AND THAT COMMENT COMING FROM THE SAME CHURCH WHO FOR DECADES - PERHAPS CENTURIES - COVERED UP CRIMES AGAINST CHILDREN PERPETRATED BY THEIR OWN CLERGY - IS THE HEIGHT OF HYPOCRISY AND A VICIOUS ASSAULT ON THE CHURCH CATHOLICS BELIEVE WAS FOUNDED BY JESUS CHRIST.
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AND WHAT OF THE REALITY OF CONCERN OVER PLACEMENT IN SAME SEX COUPLE HOUSEHOLDS???
MEDIA MATTERS FOR AMERICA, FOUNDED BY DAVID BROCK - A ONE TIME HIT MAN FOR THE CONSERVATIVE RIGHT - POINTED OUT THAT MANY RIGHT WING NUTCAKES ASSAIL SAME SEX COUPLE ADOPTION AS BEING BAD FOR KIDS BY CITING A STATISTIC THAT ORIGINATED WITH THE KING OF THE NUTCAKES JAMES DOBSON.
LET ME SHARE THE SIGNIFICANT PORTION OF THEIR LATEST REPORT, IN WHICH THEY ARE DISCUSSING ARKANSAS STATE SENATOR JIM HOLT[base ']S CLAIM, ON NPR[base ']S MORNING EDITION, THAT THERE ARE -THOUSANDS OF STUDIES, ACTUALLY ... OVER 10,000 THAT SHOW THE HOMOSEXUAL FAMILY OR THE ENVIRONMENT IS PROBLEMATIC FOR THE CHILD -
THE DISCUSSION CENTERED AROUND A RECENT ARKANSAS SUPREME COURT DECISION THAT BANNING GAYS FROM BECOMING FOSTER PARENTS IS UNCONSTITUTIONAL.
On the July 31 edition of National Public Radio's Morning Edition, reporter Jacqueline Froelich aired -- without challenge -- Arkansas Republican state Sen. Jim Holt's assertion that "there are thousands of studies, actually ... over 10,000" that show "the homosexual family or the environment is problematic for the child." Froelich aired Holt's remark during a report on the Arkansas Supreme Court's recent ruling that the state's regulation banning gays from becoming foster parents is unconstitutional. Froelich did not address Holt's dubious figure of 10,000 studies, which would be possible only if a new study reaching that conclusion had been released every day for the past 27 years. Froelich also failed to mention that numerous scientific studies, including research from the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) and the American Psychological Association (APA), support the Arkansas Supreme Court's ruling.
The court held that the Arkansas Child Welfare Agency Review Board had violated the constitutional separation of powers doctrine by exceeding the scope of its authority -- which is to protect the health, safety, and welfare of foster children -- when it banned gays and lesbians from becoming foster parents in 1997. Froelich's report included comments from Arkansas ACLU Executive Director Rita Sklar, agreeing with the court's decision, and then aired a response to the decision from Holt:
HOLT: The [lower-court] judge had said that there are no studies that show that the homosexual family or the environment is problematic for the child. And there are thousands of studies; actually, I've got over 10,000 here that show just the opposite.
Froelich noted that
HOLT'S "10,000 STUDIES" FIGURE IS OFTEN CITED BY FOCUS ON THE FAMILY FOUNDER JAMES DOBSON AND THAT HOLT "RELIED ON THAT STATISTIC AND OTHER DATA WHEN HE CO-SPONSORED A FAILED BILL SEEKING A BAN ON GAY FOSTER PARENTS."
INDEED, DOBSON HAS CITED THE 10,000-STUDY FIGURE WITHOUT EXPLAINING THE SOURCE OF HIS DATA.
HE MADE THIS CLAIM IN HIS BOOK MARRIAGE UNDER FIRE: WHY WE MUST WIN THIS BATTLE (MULTNOMAH, JUNE 2004), IN WHICH HE ASSERTED THAT "[M]ORE THAN TEN THOUSAND STUDIES HAVE CONCLUDED THAT KIDS DO BEST WHEN THEY ARE RAISED BY LOVING AND COMMITTED MOTHERS AND FATHERS" (PAGE 54).
ACCORDING TO A MEDIA MATTERS FOR AMERICA REVIEW OF MARRIAGE UNDER FIRE, THE FOOTNOTE FOR THIS PARTICULAR CLAIM STATES THAT "[M]ANY OF THESE STUDIES ARE EITHER PRESENTED OR REPRESENTED IN THE FOLLOWING," SUBSEQUENTLY LISTING A NUMBER OF BOOKS AND ARTICLES.
DOBSON DID NOT PROVIDE ANY EVIDENCE DOCUMENTING ALL 10,000 STUDIES, BUT TITLES HE DID CITE INCLUDE: GROWING UP WITH A SINGLE PARENT: WHAT HURTS, WHAT HELPS (HARVARD UNIVERSITY PRESS, OCTOBER 1994), SINGLE MOTHERS AND THEIR CHILDREN: A NEW AMERICAN DILEMMA (UNIVERSITY PRESS OF AMERICA, MARCH 1988), "LONG-TERM EFFECTS OF PARENTAL DIVORCE AND PARENT-CHILD RELATIONSHIPS, ADJUSTMENT, AND ACHIEVEMENT IN YOUNG ADULTHOOD," AND "CHILDREN WHO DON'T LIVE WITH BOTH PARENTS FACE BEHAVIORAL PROBLEMS."
THESE EXAMPLES SUGGEST THAT MANY OF DOBSON'S PURPORTED "TEN THOUSAND STUDIES" DID NOT EXAMINE PARENTING BY GAY INDIVIDUALS OR COUPLES AT ALL BUT, RATHER, ADDRESSED CHILD DEVELOPMENT IN A SINGLE-PARENT HOME VERSUS A TWO-PARENT HOME.
IN FACT, NUMEROUS STUDIES SUPPORT THE OPPOSITE CONCLUSION.
FOR EXAMPLE, A 2002 AAP TECHNICAL REPORT FOUND THAT:
A GROWING BODY OF SCIENTIFIC LITERATURE DEMONSTRATES THAT CHILDREN WHO GROW UP WITH 1 OR 2 GAY AND/OR LESBIAN PARENTS FARE AS WELL IN EMOTIONAL, COGNITIVE, SOCIAL, AND SEXUAL FUNCTIONING AS DO CHILDREN WHOSE PARENTS ARE HETEROSEXUAL. CHILDREN'S OPTIMAL DEVELOPMENT SEEMS TO BE INFLUENCED MORE BY THE NATURE OF THE RELATIONSHIPS AND INTERACTIONS WITHIN THE FAMILY UNIT THAN BY THE PARTICULAR STRUCTURAL FORM IT TAKES.
IN A JULY 2004 POLICY STATEMENT "OPPOS[ING] ANY DISCRIMINATION BASED ON SEXUAL ORIENTATION IN MATTERS OF ADOPTION, CHILD CUSTODY AND VISITATION, FOSTER CARE, AND REPRODUCTIVE HEALTH SERVICES," THE APA ASSERTED THAT "RESULTS OF RESEARCH SUGGEST THAT LESBIAN AND GAY PARENTS ARE AS LIKELY AS HETEROSEXUAL PARENTS TO PROVIDE SUPPORTIVE AND HEALTHY ENVIRONMENTS FOR THEIR CHILDREN."
SIMILARLY, AN OCTOBER 2005 WEB MD ARTICLE REPORTED THAT ACCORDING TO FINDINGS PRESENTED AT THE OCTOBER 2005 AMERICAN ACADEMY OF PEDIATRICS CONFERENCE AND EXHIBITION, "[C]HILDREN GROWING UP IN SAME-SEX PARENTAL HOUSEHOLDS DO NOT NECESSARILY HAVE DIFFERENCES IN SELF-ESTEEM, GENDER IDENTITY, OR EMOTIONAL PROBLEMS FROM CHILDREN GROWING UP IN HETEROSEXUAL PARENT HOMES."
IN ADDITION, A JANUARY 2005 NEW YORK TIMES ARTICLE (SUBSCRIPTION REQUIRED) NOTED THE ASSESSMENT OF DR. JUDITH STACEY, A SOCIOLOGY PROFESSOR AT NEW YORK UNIVERSITY, THAT "THERE IS NOT A SINGLE LEGITIMATE SCHOLAR OUT THERE WHO ARGUES THAT GROWING UP WITH GAY PARENTS IS SOMEHOW BAD FOR CHILDREN."
AND MIGHT I JUST ADD THAT EVEN DR. LAURA SCHLESSINGER, THAT HOUND, HAS SAID THAT GAY COUPLES RESCUE CHILDREN FROM A PARENTLESS LIFE WHEN THEY ADOPT THEM. SHE DOES NOT ADVOCATE FOR THEM ADOPTING BABIES, BECAUSE SHE SAID HETERO COUPLES ARE AVAILABLE FOR THAT. BUT WHEN THE STRAIGHT FOLKS FAIL TO STEP UP, THEN IT'S OKAY FOR THE HOMOS TO TAKE IN CHILDREN IN NEED.
GOD I SOMETIMES HATE THOSE PEOPLE WHO CALL THEMSELVES FAMILY FRIENDLY WITH THEIR HYPOCRISY AND TWISTED LOGIC.
I MIGHT JUST POINT OUT THAT I AM A 50 YEAR OLD WOMAN WHO IS THE PROUD MOTHER OF THREE YEAR OLD TRIPLETS, SIRED BY MY HUSBAND, BIRTHED BY ME TO OUR HETEROSEXUAL COMMITTED FAMILY.
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