Came across this at a much needed time....
Don Ruiz wrote The Four Agreements which are his rules for life
1. Be Impeccable With Your Word - Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.
2. Don't Take Anything Personally - Nothing others do is because of you. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.
3. Don't Make Assumptions - Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness, and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.
4. Always Do Your Best - Your best is going to change from moment to moment / it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstances, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret.
I felt unappreciated as I am leaving the company I've been with for four years...but I can't let it get to me. I can't. But, I can say I did a good job. I gave myself, sometimes a little too much, to the folks and it was a learning experience. And I will be missed by some and will miss some. And that's life.
