One of the things that gives me a slight glimmer of hope in Iraq are
the men and women on the ground, if only we listened to them more, and
they heard less from our civilian leadership. They are the ones who
most want to end the conflict, have the greatest immediate stake in
ending the conflict, and the ones, at this point, with the only
potential to do so. I doubt many folks on the ground would have
recommended, as the White House and Pentagon did, assaulting Falluja.
Nor would military brass, the upper ranks, have recommended a policy of
aggressive "containment." We're just poking our sticks in hornet nests,
and we forget, despite our size and power, that the hornets outnumber
us about 15 to 1.
I'm thinking I may institute a new tradition of eulogizing friends once
a year. That becomes a good assessment of how close you've maintained a
relationship, ones that you wish you had more time to spend with, ones
you maybe wish you spent a little less, judged by what you'd say on the
spot as a toast at a wedding, a few words at a funeral, a retirement
party, authentically, from the heart.
Knowing cats by the sounds of their purr is a pretty good bet that
they've made a permanent place in the home, even more so than the
naming.
8:39:26 PM
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