I seriously just give up on the whole Its Just for Lunch deal, I realized after my date last night, that I'm never going to meet someone I'd be interested in through Its Just for Lunch because the guys I'd be interested in are good looking and have something in common with me. The guys that sign up for these types of dating services are the ones sad to say, the ones that are the nice guys, that no one would look at twice, that sit alone, that are the nice guys.
The guy last night was ok, there was no chemistry and honestly even though he asked for my phone number, I'll never hear from him and Fremont is far away from my world. He was nice guy. For once in my life I was on time and he was late, the first thing he said to me was "Oh, you're a beer drinker, well I'm a wine drinker" huh? like I'm not good enough because I drink beer? or that's what I felt was implied. Anyways, he reminded me of some comedian - I can't remember his name, if I think of it I'll update. Anyways, no chemistry, never would I notice this guy across the room.
The 4th guy previously - they told me he looked like a football player, turns out NOT. The matchmakers seriously need to go to a football game and then compare him to a football player - he reminded me of an old Kramer from Sienfeld and he was definelty nothing in common with me - he was old, didn't know anything about computers, was a personal trainer by night and a zoo dietican by day but doesn't interact with the animals. He was morning person, goes to bed at 9pm, up by 5am. Oh and when I said I had 5 cats, his comment "isn't that a little excessive?"
And now I realized after date #5 last night, Its Just for Lunch has mis-advertised the guys that are available to be matched with completely. There are no GQ guys available because those guys don't have problems getting dates. There are no busy cute professional guys - because those guys still have no problem getting dates.
I on the other hand am busy and just need to get out more. There were plenty of cute guys the other day at Home Depot and since I'll most likely be there alot soon, dating should open up for me. I'm not desparate, I just wanted to meet quality guys which I'm definetly not going to be meeting through Its Just for Lunch.
Only one more that that's it. Never again will I use a matching service.
7:54:46 PM
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