SEX TIP #13
Dear sex tip counselor, Me and one of my friends got drunk one night, and I can’t even remember how it happened, but we ended up kissing each other. Even though that’s all we did, I can’t stop thinking about it. Am I turning into a lesbian?-Kim, via the Internet
Dear Kim,  Relax. Either you’re a lesbian, or you’re not. Kissing a friend, particularly when you’re drunk, doesn’t mean you’re turning into anything. Do you like guys? Perhaps you have bi-sexual tendencies. Or, perhaps you just got a little experimental because the booze loosened you up a bit. Some people (both men and women) fantasize about members of the same sex, and some even engage in relations to experiment, and that does not necessarily define their sexual preferences. Have you spoken with your friend about this? One way to resolve the issue is to be open about it. You do not mention in what capacity you’ve been thinking about the encounter, so I can’t tell if it’s because you’re worried about turning into a lesbian, because you’re worried about dealing with your friend, or whether you’re considering the opportunity for another encounter while sober. Ease up on yourself, and don’t worry. You’ve done nothing thousands of women before you haven’t experienced, and you’ve probably come a lot closer to finding out what you really desire sexually than most others.
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