Missionary Sex
SEX TIP #16
Dear Sex tip counselor,
My girlfriend, Ann, is an absolute dynamo in bed. She loves wrapping her legs around me, and really pumps her ass off the bed when we fuck. She's anything but the "lay there and enjoy it" type. The problem? It's all we do.
She isn't interested in trying anything else. She's obsessed with straight, missionary fucking. She also doesn't really engage in any foreplay. I've tried to initiate some slow kissing, and fondling, but I can't even remember the last time I got to eat her pussy or finger her.
The other night I practically begged her to try it doggie style, or with her on top, but she just kept me on top of her in one position until finally I just gave up and we did it until we both came. I don't want to upset her, Johnny, and any sex is good sex, but I think I'm starting to lose interest in it because it's always the same. I never thought I'd say that!
-bbob2951, via the Internet
Dear Bbob,
Monotony can kill any relationship, and I can see from your letter that you're trying, just not succeeding. I'd suggest that you back off on any sex for a while, and see if your li'l dynamo decides she'd rather experiment than not get laid at all.
Where some guys make the mistake, is that they believe what's been drummed into their heads for years, that it's always us who want sex, and that women have to be cajoled and convinced. Watch one episode of Sex in the City and you'll get a good idea that this is certainly not the case, and if there's anything I've learned in my vast experience-particularly when it comes to young girls and sex-it's that they want it just as bad as we do.
Sometimes even worse. One thing to keep in mind, though, is that you need to find something you both enjoy. Some women don't like to be on top. Some women don't like the way their breasts hang, or how they look if they have a little bit of a tummy, etc. For them, it's solely a matter of appearance. As for positions like doggie style, the size and shape of your cock might be a reason she's wary of change.
Many women report that they experience deeper penetration in the doggie style position, so if you're pretty big, this might worry her. Is there a noticeable curve to your cock? You might have a dick that feels like it's molded just right for the inside of her pussy, or hits her g-spot perfectly, and she might be afraid that she won't get that same feeling in another sexual position. Show her this letter, because while she might be afraid it won't be as good, by the same logic, she'll never know if it can be better unless she's willing to try.
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