I was talking to someone at work tonight and said I don't know why my boss stopped trusting me and basically started acting like a total ass to me and they told me a couple of things that they have heard about me and why he is behaving the way he is towards me....
1) first he seems to think I tell everyone about the company's losses..now I admit I told a couple of people about it - friends that I trust(people I'd call friends outside of work) and one of the partners and the other accounting person. However, I might just shut up and tell only my friends that I don't work with, since someone seems to be spreading rumors about me saying that I've told everyone..
2) he is afraid that he is going to lose me, that I'm looking for another job (true) but really does he think changing my hours without reason, not paying me time I've worked while I was sick, yelling at me in front of other people and trying to make me look stupid and and generally being an ass..is going to make me want to stay?? He just pissed me off and I started looking harder for a new job.
believe me..I've tried talking to him and that doesn't help..but what I don't get, is why not come to me and ask me if the rumors are true instead of just being an ass for the last 6 months or so..at what point did he think I could read his mind about everything and why didn't he think of the consequences of treating me like this..did he honestly think it would make me want to keep my job if I have an ass for a boss..pushing me away just makes me want to leave more than anything...
except the last couple of days..I've realized that I have really bad job burnout and a week off without work will help, I even told him I'd plan the company picnic..so I'm there for a least a couple of more months...the job market sucks right now..but I'm not giving up..I'll find a new job...
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