Dating is confusing enough without knowing the rules of the game..or the definition of personals dating terms. And when your feelings get mixed into the game, it can be quite confusing..let me just say, someone dear to me last night told me he wasn't ready/doesn't want a serious committment relationship..but I was curious to see by definition where our relationship is in dating terms..
friendship n. You hang out, have things in common, swap stories, not tongues. (Note: if a woman is looking for "either" a man or a woman and has "friendship" checked off, she's not neccessarily bisexual - she probably just moved to a new city and is looking for drinking buddies.)
dating n. You hang out, have things in common, swap stories, swap tongues and maybe other body parts (not necessarily on the first date), and aren't exclusive (unless otherwise discussed and agreed upon).
serious relationship n. You are exclusive (unless you're in one of those newfangled open relationships, but this has been discussed and agreed upon by both parties). You talk about the relationship. You call each other boyfriend or girlfriend. You make plans together more than three days in advance. You talk baby talk to each other but would never admit it to anyone else. Your ad is hidden, not deleted — but only so you can show the grandkids how you met. (Note: Meeting up for a second personals date does not automatically mean you two are in a serious relationship. Everyone must go through the "dating" stage first.)
play n. You are naughty and need to be spanked often, by different paddles. xoxoxo
and honestly, I'm ok with what he said/feels, he was being honest and I know how I feel..whatever happens, happens for a reason. There is a reason he appeared in my life...so basically, we're still in the dating stage and maybe that will be as far as it goes or maybe not..who knows what the future holds......
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