"Why can't I look like this?"..?

I do. :P Well, anyway, moving right along...

MoveOn's contest to come up with the best Beat Bush ad campaign produces some fire-breathing doozies -- and the Democrats should pay attention.

See all 26 finalist ads here.

The last article I posted seemed "funny" (in a "gotcha" kind of way), because the victims got their "day in court" and made those who stood by and did nothing pay a high price. But sometimes the results of teachers' and administrators' inaction are deadly and tragic—and nobody wins.

This article describes a tragedy that took place several years ago now, but I just came across it today. Together with the previous one, it illustrates a critical concept: whether it's disability, race, religion, sexual orientation, or just being "different", teasing can hurt teens so deeply that they take their own lives, and—as it took a debacle like Columbine to show the public—sometimes even those of others. High-dollar lawsuits, suicides, murders, and yet it seems that enough people still aren't getting it...

"Research indicates 31% of gay youth were threatened or injured at school last year. These experiences have a devastating impact on the educational success and mental health of youth. Anti-gay prejudice affects straight youth, too. For every gay, lesbian and bisexual youth being harassed, 4 straight students were harassed because they were perceived as being gay or lesbian. ..."

I do not believe that children or teenagers (or any people) are "naturally" cruel to one another. They learn whatever cruelty they know from the society in which they are formed. And yet the country goes right on electing leaders to our highest offices who think that making discriminatory statements and laws against those with minority ways of being and acting is just fine and jolly dandy...

How many teenage suicides? How many brutal murders? How many hate crimes? How many Matthew Sheppards? How many Tempest Smiths? How many Brandon Teenas and Gwen Arujos? How many defaced synagogues and mosques? How many more shattered lives before people realize that "One Way" is NO WAY to live together as a society??!!

What will it take for people to see through such folly as "Focus on the Family"'s shabby defense of its dangerous anti-gay rhetoric as "simply promoting the traditional family" or its inane argument that "all crime is hate crime"?

"Crimes motivated by bigotry usually arise not out of the pathological rantings and ravings of a few deviant types in organized hate groups, but out of the very mainstream of society."  —Jack Levin and Jack McDevitt, Hate Crimes: The Rising Tide of Bigotry and Bloodshed

New York Times: Education
1/12/04
California School District Settles Harassment Suit by Gay Students
 By Carol Pogash

After a five-year legal battle, a school district near San Jose has agreed to pay six gay students $1.1 million and provide mandatory awareness training for school staff members. ...

It's my high school(!)...hehehe

New York Times
1/12/04
Two Fathers, With One Happy to Stay at Home
 By Ginia Bellafante

An emerging population of gay men are not only raising children but are also committed to the idea that one parent should leave the workplace to do it...

BLIND, DEAF PEOPLE OBJECT TO BEING COMPARED TO BUSH ADMINISTRATION

Demand Apology From Paul O'Neill

After former Treasury Secretary Paul O'Neill likened President George W. Bush in his Cabinet meetings to a "blind man in a roomful of deaf people," representatives of the blind and the deaf demanded a prompt and total apology from the former administration official.

... For his part, President Bush today released a statement comparing himself to "rubber" and Mr. O'Neill to "glue."

Word of the Day for Monday January 12, 2004
  gustatory GUS-tuh-tor-ee, adjective: Of or pertaining to the sense of taste.

In a land of ice and chains and endemic suffering, caviar provided gustatory salvation from grief and black days, a sensual escape from temporal woes.
 —Jeffrey Tayler, "The Caviar Thugs," The Atlantic, June 2001

Why . . . would something that provides such gustatory pleasure turn out to be supposedly the worst thing you could ever eat?
 —Richard Turner, "The Trendy Diet That Sizzles," Newsweek, September 6, 1999