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  Wednesday, February 09, 2005


For some reason my posts aren't showing up.  I entered one at 10 today.

Okay, I wanted to do something, but now I'm sleepy.


2:58:22 PM    
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For a graphologist, the spacing on the page reflects the writer's attitude toward their own world and relationship to things in his or her own space.  If the inputted data was correct Rebecca has left some white space on the left side of the paper. Rebecca fills up the rest of the page in a normal fashion moving the entire writing rightward as she moves down the page. If this is true, then Rebecca has  a healthy relationship to the past and is ready to move on. The right side of the page represents the future and Rebecca is ready and willing to get started living now and planning for the future.  Rebecca is leaving the past behind and moving on to what she perceives as an exciting and enticing future.


Rebecca has a healthy imagination and displays a fair amount of trust. She lets new people into her circle of friends. She uses her imagination to understand new ideas, things, and people.


Rebecca is sarcastic. This is a defense mechanism designed to protect her ego when she feels hurt. She pokes people harder than she gets poked. These sarcastic remarks can be very funny. They can also be harsh, bitter, and caustic at the same time.

 


Rebecca is a cumulative and procedural thinker. She likes to have all the facts before making a decision. She thinks or creates much like a brick mason, stacking fact upon fact. Her thought pattern or the conclusion will not be complete until the last fact is in place. Like that brick wall, Rebecca learns faster through visual demonstration than through quick verbal instructions. Once she has learned new material, and understood it, she won't forget. Rebecca is a methodical thinker, therefore she is able to build things and come up with new ideas. In an argument, she often loses to rapid thinking people because she is thinking thirty minutes later about what she should have said. These people often are very booksmart, but can be out-gunned in a rapid fire verbal debate. She may learn new ideas at a slower pace than other "less detailed" people, but once she gets it, she can handle repetition. Some people hate jobs with too much repetition, she can handle it better than most.


Rebecca has an over-awareness of self. She often feels self-conscious. She fears ridicule, therefore she is careful not to place herself in a position to receive any ridicule. She wonders what people will think if she acts in a certain manner. When encountering a new group of people, Rebecca may stay on the sidelines until she has the people categorized, or she may behave in a "positive attention getting" manner to assure people think good thoughts about her from the start. In the sales profession, this self-consciousness is called "call reluctance". They take the word "no" as a personal criticism. Therefore, there is an internal struggle when performing this type of work. Although this person may be a great salesperson, she still feels insecurity. She will perform better if someone else is with her because the fear of ridicule from her peers is far greater than the fear of ridicule from her clients. Many times this type of person becomes a sales trainer, because when she is training, she doesn't have to put herself in a position of being told "no" as often as the salesmen do.


Rebecca will be candid and direct when expressing her opinion. She will tell them what she thinks if they ask for it, whether they like it or not. So, if they don't really want her opinion, don't ask for it!


Rebecca is sensitive to criticism about her ideas and philosophies. She will sometimes worry what people will think if she tells them what she believes in. This doesn't mean she won't talk, or that she feels ashamed. It merely means she is sensitive to what others think, regarding her beliefs.


Rebecca uses judgment to make decisions. She is ruled by her head, not her heart. She is a cool, collected person who is usually unexpressive emotionally. Some may see her as unemotional. She does have emotions but has no need to express them. She is withdrawn into herself and enjoys being alone. The circumstances when Rebecca does express emotions include: extreme anger, extreme passion, and tremendous stress. If someone gets her mad enough to tell her off, she will not be sorry about it later. She puts a mark in her mind when someone angers her. She keeps track of these marks and when she hits that last mark she will let them know they have gone too far. She is ruled somewhat by self-interest. All her conclusions are made without outside emotional influence. She is very level-headed and will remain calm in an emergency situation. In a situation where other people might get hysterical, she has poise. Rebecca will work more efficiently if given space and time to be alone. She would rather not be surrounded by people constantly. In a relationship, she will show her love by the things she does rather than by the things she says. Saying "I love you" is not a needed routine because she feels her mate should already know. The only exception to this is if she has logically concluded that it is best for her mate to hear her express her love verbally. Rebecca is not subject to emotional appeals. If someone is selling a product to her, they will need to present only the facts. They should present them from a standpoint of her sound judgment. She will not be taken in by an emotional story about someone else. She will meet emergencies without getting hysterical and she will always ask "Is this best for me?"


People that write their letters in an average height and average size are moderate in their ability to interact socially.  According to the data input, Rebecca doesn't write too large or too small, indicating a balanced ability to be social and interact with others.


Rebecca can be defiant. She sometimes has the attitude that if someone doesn't like it the way she is doing it, then they can just "go to hell!" This trait may reveal itself in a rebellious nature that is always ready to resist forces which she thinks are infringing upon her freedom of action.

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That was fun.  I did remove one part that I considered completely false...


11:47:20 AM    
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I am freezing in my office!!! 

I did get included on lunch-ordering.  I went in even though I had a nice salad with me...just didn't want to make them feel like they shouldn't ask. 

I should go to the gym tonight. I am VERY sore from yesterday's class though  and have a class at 6 am (which a friend is going to attend with me!), so if I go, I will take it easy and just do 30 minutes of cardio or something.  The scales has already moved downward this week though, so I need to keep it up.


11:17:45 AM    
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What a fun night last night!!  Buckwheat Zydeco & Kelly Bell Band.  My boys and a couple of new people.  Dancing, dancing, dancing.  I met a couple of new, cool people and just enjoyed the evening.  I did skip the gym this morning in favor of sleep, but I think that was a good choice.

It's not looking like today will be all that busy.  I did get to go to a meeting for an hour. Yay!  I mean, a whole hour taken up...that was nice.


10:03:02 AM    
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